I’ll probably update this with time but several people have asked me questions through email and quite often they are repeats so apparently they’re fairly common so I’ll address them here. It’s not that I don’t like getting emails from people but this might make it easier to understand me. The questions are in no particular order. What I did was go into my email and read them again and write down the most common questions. The very sexual I’ve left off from here, if you have a question along those lines, just send me an email and I’ll answer it that way.
The question I get the most:
1) What clothes are my favorite to get wet in?
Actually that’s a hard question to answer. Depending on the situation I like different things. That being said, if it’s an ordinary Saturday or Sunday in the summer and I’m getting dressed for the day, meaning I’ll be getting wet at some point but at that point I haven’t figured out how, it’ll be jeans and depending on my mood, either a t-shirt or a button up oxford type shirt that I can tie above my waist.
If I’m going to the beach, it’ll certainly be jeans or some kind of pants but usually jeans. The reason being, that as I walk along the surf line I like the feeling of my jeans as they get wetter and wetter and how the wet fabric brushes against the tops of my feet. Needless to say, in this case, they aren’t skinny jeans. I would almost never wear a skirt or dress in that situation because you have to go a lot farther out into the water before any clothing starts to get wet.
Obviously if I’m going out to a club, which in actuality I really don’t do very often, I’ll wear a skirt or dress and heels. There are a couple of bars up in Los Angeles that I seem to end up at quite often that are great because they’re right by pools and they’re a lot of fun to get in. The best for wetlook is the Tropicana Pool Cafe at the Hollywood Roosevelt Hotel. No one there even gives you a sideways glance if you get in the pool with your clothes on. The waitress will be more than happy to bring your drink to the edge of the pool. Obviously, tip well.
The second is the SkyBar at Mondrian in Hollywood. If you’re staying at the hotel you can end up in the pool in whatever you’re wearing without much ado but a couple of times I’ve been there and some of us have ended up in the pool and usually before too long a waitress or other employee will ask you to get out.
2) What is your favorite brand of jeans?
That’s easy. Citizens of Humanity. They fit me best and I like them because they’re not for everyone. Most people that I know, had never heard of them before meeting me. I like unusual things so they’re a good fit, both literally and figuratively.
For skinny low rise I only have about 2 or 3 pair of the Racer style, and then if I’m wearing boots to go riding, I probably have 5 or 6 Cherie Flare. My favorites and the ones I wear daily are Emannuelle. I probably have 20 pair of these in the various colors. The skinny ones are what I’ll wear if I know I’ll be jumping into a pool or if I’m just going out and don’t think I’ll get wet but still want to look good. If I’m going to be walking on the beach I wouldn’t wear them because of course they’re tight and can’t brush the tops of my feet.
3) Do I like to see others, men or women, get wet?
Certainly. A guy that reads my blog sent me a link to his Tumbler account where he has some pictures and while I’d rather see the real thing in person, there are a couple of pictures that I loved.
If I’m walking on the beach and see someone in clothes near the surf line I’ll head in their direction and see if they go in or not. If they don’t, it’s always interesting to see if they notice that at least part of me is wet if not completely wet. If they do get wet, even slightly, I’ll try striking up a conversation with them. I’ve met a lot of people that way and also met a fellow wetlook lover that way.
I also love being down at the beach in the evening and seeing couples come down to the waters edge and see if they end up in the water, either being pushed in or just playing. The best beach for that is Santa Monica by the pier.
4) How often do you get wet?
During the summer, usually daily. I live on Newport Harbor so I either take my kayak or paddle board out almost every morning or evening. I’m pretty lucky with my hair, it’s pretty low maintenance so I can get it wet in the morning and then just rinse it out under the outside shower, semi dry it with a towel, run my fingers through it and then go straight to work. On the weekends I’ll hose off my deck or patio and get at least from my knees down, wet and then once I get wet some way or another I’ll be wet the rest of the day.
In the winter, usually at least every other day or so. The same way, kayaking or SUPing but not jumping in and then getting in my spa afterwards. Of course on those infrequent days when it rains, it’s heaven to splash in puddles.
5) I hesitated to put this here because it’s kind of personal but a lot of people have asked it so I figured, “Why not?” Do you ever pee in your clothes?
Occasionally but only if I know I’ll be able to rinse off right away. I’ve never peed and then walked around without being able to rinse off. Just not my thing.
6) What’s your favorite place to get wet?
That’s also tough. Right away I was going to say the beach but then I stopped to think about it and there are so many other places it’s hard to commit to one or the other. I love getting into fountains. Absolutely love it. My favorite fountains are center court at Universal CityWalk, The Electric Fountain in Beverly Hills, there used to be a Niagra Water building in Santa Ana that had a HUGE waterfall in front of their office, Knotts Berry Farm has a big bucket you can get under and get soaked, there’s a bank in El Toro, I won’t mention names, that has a great one.
7) Have you ever gotten wet in overalls?
Yes, when I was a kid I had a few pairs that I’d get wet in. Both in the neighbor’s pool and at the beach. I haven’t had a pair of overalls in years but now that I think about it, they can be pretty sexy if done correctly so I may get another pair.
8) Do you ever get wet in heavy jackets or winter clothes?
No. I’d never even thought about it until someone asked. I have an extremely high tolerance to cold if I’m turned on so if it’s really cold, meaning snow on the ground, I’ll go in up to my waist so maybe the bottom of my jacket will get wet. If I can’t help myself and I just have to go in further, I’ve always taken my jacket off. Just never thought about keeping it on. Often when I’m in my kayak or SUP I’ll wear a hoodie sweatshirt and I’ll jump in with that on so I’m not sure if that counts.
9) Do the people you date know about your liking wetlook?
Absolutely. It may not be on the first date but certainly soon after becoming intimate. I guess that also begs the question, how do I tell them? Well, often I’ll tell them when I’m wet so it’s pretty easy. Somehow I may have ended up in water and more often than not they’ll ask what that’s about and I’ll just say I like how it feels and it turns me on. I try to make it fun so it’s not just blatently sexual. That’s why I prefer getting wet outside. It seems to me that if you get in a bath and tell someone that’s what turns you on it might not be taken as well as if you initially present it as something fun. And bottom line, I think that’s what wetlook is, fun. Sure, it’s sexy and erotic but I also do it because it’s fun and makes me feel good. I don’t always get horny when I get wet but I always enjoy it for numerous reasons. It connects me to a part of my life where things were more innocent, it’s almost illicit which brings on an adrenaline rush which is very addictive, you feel like you’re getting away with something, it’s different. Sometimes, like now, I really can’t explain why I like it so, I just do.
10) Have you ever gotten wet during the day and gone back to work wet?
Yes, many times. The people at my office have almost gotten used to seeing me wet. A few years ago, when I was at the first big signing of a new client, we were at a local hotel using one of their meeting rooms and after the deal was done I was almost giddy with excitement. We signed the deal because of my work and I was totally stoked and as we were walking around celebrating I saw the pool and just veered away from the group ran and jumped in the pool. I really didn’t even think about it. I’d had a glass of champagne but it wasn’t that. I was just so excited that it was just something I did. Fortunately everyone thought it was funny and laughed because they could all see just how excited and happy I was.
Of course we all went back to the office and before we’d been back 5 minutes everyone had heard about and stopped by my office to see if it was true. After that it sort of became a tradition so now more and more people are joining me including one of the other partners.
Also, our office is near the ocean so a few times when it’s been raining I’ll go out to lunch, go down to the beach, get in the ocean, shower off and come back to the office. Of course I’ll blame it on the rain but I’m sure some people suspect otherwise.
I had another instance of getting wet in the line of work where I had to go swimming in some very yucky water and had to keep my heels on and everything because I didn’t want to get a nail or something else in my foot. I may write a blog about it some day.
11) Do you ever get wet in a bathtub or shower?
No and sort of yes. I haven’t been in a bathtub in clothes since I was a little kid, probably nine or so. It just doesn’t do anything for me anymore. I wouldn’t say I’ve out grown it, I just enjoy other ways of getting wet now. The shower you ask? Well sort of yes, sort of no. Just to get in the shower to get wet is something that I also haven’t done in years but if I’m already wet and need to warm up or rinse off, sure, I do that all the time. Both my indoor shower and outdoor one.
Well okay, I guess I should claify that. I dated a guy that was into wetlook and quite often when he was showering I’d get in with him with my clothes on. But just me knocking around the house, no.
12) Do you have any tattoos?
Yes, it’s very personal. I’m part American Indian and it depicts the struggle and decimation of our people by the government. If you want to hear the horrors of what can happen with unfettered immigration, ask a Native American. Okay, that will be my last political statement.
13) Have you ever had sex in wet clothes?
Yes, numerous times. More times than I can count with aforementioned boyfriend but also many times with others. Wetlook is often a very erotic thing for me and when I get wet, often I get horny and when I’m with someone and I’m horny we both get to enjoy the fruits of my “fetish”. Of course with some clothes it’s easier than others. It’s always a conundrum, I get wet in jeans more than anything else but they’re also the hardest to deal with and have sex. Obviously skirts and dresses are the easiest and there are times when I knew I’d be with a guy I liked, knew I’d be getting wet and wore a skirt or dress in a situation that I might have normally worn jeans.
14) Are you embarrassed if others see you in wet clothes?
That’s kind of a hard question. Sometimes I don’t worry about it and others, yes, it’s embarrassing. I don’t necessarily mean because I’m wearing something that’s become transparent and revealing, for all my brave talk, there are lots of times where I feel the whole world is looking at me, laughing at me, and judging me. What I’ll usually do in those situations is make sure I’m wearing dark glasses and just don’t look at anyone directly, just look slightly down and ahead and get to where I’m going. Hopefully they won’t even remember me the next day. My therapist is especially proud of those moments.
15) How can I tell my girlfriend I like wet clothes?
I sort of touched on that earlier but the main thing I’d say is make it fun. Don’t come out and say, “Oh hey, I like this weird thing,” and then plop down into the bathtub. To be honest, if I’m not wet and with the person, I’m a chicken and tell them over the phone. I still make it sound like fun but I let them know it’s important to me and give them examples of how it can be fun. To be honest, I’ve never had someone say, “ewww.” Many don’t really understand it and will only do it once or twice or not at all, in that case the relationship doesn’t progress very far. But for the most part, most people take it well and go along with it. I’ve had, I think, a few converts. A few people that I’ve done it with then look for places to do it with me or even on their own but thinking back on it, that was only two or three people.
16) Are you on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Tumblr, Pinterest, Skype, FaceTime, etc.?
No, Yes, No, Yes (just recently), No, No, No, No. For as technical, social, and contact oriented as my professional life is, my personal life is extremely unconnected. I update my Facebook account maybe three of four times a year and just look at it, maybe once a month to see if I missed anything important and no, I’ve found that I haven’t. I text very little. I like talking to people in person. I use my phone as a tool to set up times to meet people, not as a method of replacing personal contact. I like seeing someone’s face and expression when I talk to them, I like touching people when we talk. I’m a very touchy feely person.
That being said, a guy that I’m in contact with set up a Tumblr account and encouraged me to set up one also so I could see his pictures. So, if you have a Tumblr account and want me to follow you, just send me a request. If you’d like to look at his pictures, some of which I think are very hot, his account is http://getwetcharlie.tumblr.com
17) How do you keep your phone dry when you get wet?
I’ve ruined several phones, one intentionally and several unintentionally. I have waterproof pouches called Aquapacs which I usually have several at work, in my cars and truck and at home. I keep my the key fobs for my cars in them when I’m going to get wet and pouches for my phone also. The phone ones are pretty bulky so I’ll usually leave my phone in my car but if I have it and didn’t know I was going to get wet, I’ll eithe hide it, place it somewhere safe or have someone hold it for me. The same goes for my key fobs. Of course there have been times where I’ve been so excited about getting wet that I forget to check myself out and go in with the phone or key fob. The key fobs survive fairly well, I’ve only ruined two, but I’ve probably ruined 15 or 20 phones. Yeah, I know, there are some out there that believe I should be drawn, hanged and quartered for such a shamefull display of ruined technology.
18) Do you wear shoes when you get wet?
Again, sometimes yes, sometimes no. Obviously if I’m going to the beach no. I know, there are videos of women wearing heels at the beach but seriously, have you ever tried walking in heels, much less heels in sand? It’s a good way to twist an ankle. As to tennis shoes, yeah, I know, those of you on the continent call them trainers but bear with me for using this terminology, once again, sand is pertty uncomfortable when it gets into tennis shoes and, invariably, when walking in sand then once you get into the surf, it’s impossible to keep the sand out. I almost never wear socks so there wouldn’t be anything to keep the sand from abrading my feet.
When going into fountains or pools, it just kind of depends. When I’ve done it after meetings for work, I keep my shoes on, when I get into fountains, about half the time I leave them on, about half the time, I take them off. I can’t really say why either way. As for tennis shoes when I’m out and about, I’ll usually leave them on. I love the sound shoes make when you walk in them wet and I especially like how the water seeps out the seams and tops. If I know I’m going to be wet for a long time, I’ll usually take the shoes off except if I’m hiking. In that instance I’ll have socks on but otherwise, wearing wet shoes for hours without socks is really hard on the skin of my feet.
19) Have you ever ruined anything getting it wet?
Yes, I ruined a sweater when I was a kid. Well actually I put it in the dryer after getting it wet so I guess it really wasn’t the fault of getting wet.
A couple of years ago I was able to attend the Oscars and an after party. At the party sort of accidentally, sort of on purpose, I ended up in the pool with a few other people. I’d gotten a Versace dress made out of silk. Once in the pool we horsed around a bit and I’m not sure if that’s what ruined the dress or just getting wet would have done it but either way, it was absolutely ruined. That really stung not only because it was super expensive but I thought it was an absolutely gorgeous dress and I really would have liked to be able to wear it again.
20) Do you do messy?
Not intentionally. I’m a neat freak. As I mentioned earlier I had to swim in some very dirty water once but it’s not something that I’d search out and do. Frankly I never even thought about it until I found the Wetlook Forum.
21) Do you ever get embarrassed and not go in the water?
Yes. For all my bold, brave talk, there are times where I just can’t work up the nerve to do it. If there are a ton of people about and it would be super odd, maybe not, it just depends on my mood. If I’m with someone I’ll always get wet. Sort of the strength in numbers thing. Even if they’re not getting wet it’ll give me courage.
22) Have you ever gotten wet in leather pants?
Nope. I’ve never had any but after talking with a few people about it, I may try it.
23) Do you think God made us this way, liking wetlook?
I’m an atheist so first of all, I don’t believe in God. Why do we like it when others don’t, I couldn’t answer that either. For me, I know where it came from but my situation is different from others so I can’t speak for anyone else.
24) Some of your blogs mention women in a sexual way, are you bisexual?
I wasn’t going to mention much sexual here but I’ve gotten this several times so I guess I’ll answer it. I’m not a big fan of labels but I guess if I had to answer, yes. I’ve been intimate with both women and men and have had long term relationships with both.
25) Do you like getting wet slowly or all at once like jumping in a pool?
Now that’s a hard one. Both? It just depends on the situation. If someone put a gun to my head and said I had to answer, I’d probably have to tell them to shoot me. Really, it just depends on the situation and how I feel at the moment. If I’m at a pool and going to get in and it’s a warm day, half the time I’ll jump in and others I’ll wade in slowly.
26) Have you ever gotten into bed in wet clothes?
No. Never even thought about it. I wouldn’t want to ruin my mattress. I do have a set of rubber sheets for more of a sexual purpose so I suppose I could use those but I just never thought of it before.
27) Do you usually wear underwear and if so, what kind?
Again, sometimes yes and sometimes no. If I wear it, it’s usually a thong or g-string. I’ve had guys ask me, “How can you stand that thing wedged between your crack, doesn’t it drive you crazy?” Well it wouldn’t take much gas for that drive, sorry, bad joke, but once you get used to it I can’t imagine wearing anything else. It does take a few days to get used to it but you never have a bunch of material creeping up your ass, panty lines are lessened and so on and on.
28) Will you post more pictures of yourself? Will you send me pictures of you?
No. Probably not. I don’t like most pictures of myself and I just don’t think I look that good wet.
29) Does your family know about you liking wetlook?
I have no family, so no. Before they died, no.
30) Can I meet you?
No. I’ve had to get four restraining orders and as such have a CCW permit and a black belt in Aikido but even so, I want to reduce the chances of needing another restraining order or having to use my CCW or black belt.
31) How do you meet the guys you date?
Friends set me up, just walking on the beach and a couple of times at restaurants. Just haven’t met mister right. Well I have but that’s a different story.
32) Do you have any hobbies or play any sports?
Yes, and kind of. I’m an avid photographer and am huge into HDR photography and even bigger into astral photography. Usually I only sleep between four and six hours a night which leaves me more time to persue my interests so obviously, since I love astral photography, I’m a night owl. Usually I go to bed around 3:00 or 4:00 am and I’m usually up by about 8:00 am. I’ve never played in any team sports but I participate in several individual sports. I like kayaking, stand up paddleboarding, water skiing, surfing, kite boarding, snow skiing, speed riding and fencing.
33) The nicest thing is to get into a lake or into the calm sea and slowly immerse with my pants into the water, just love it! Can you share that or what are exciting moments for you?
I’m lazy here so I’ll cut and paste my answer but slightly change a few things. We’d been talking about underwear so my answer was sort of pertaining to that.